I fight Rape Culture because
When I told my ex boyfriend about my rape
He ‘forgave’ me.

I fight Rape Culture because
I saw my baby sister age overnight
As she told me about her best friend getting molested.

I fight Rape Culture because
My closest friend was abused as a child
And he told nobody but me.
It took him 13 years to open up.

I fight Rape Culture because
My friends admit to letting their partners fuck them when they don’t want it
Then laugh it off as typical male behaviour.

I fight Rape Culture because
Saying that you’re raping someone is perfectly acceptable
If you’re playing a video game.

I fight Rape Culture because
Men tell me they are insulted when women walking in front of them start to walk faster.
As if their ego is more important than our safety.

I fight Rape Culture because
If I tell somebody their rape joke isn’t funny
I am told that I’m uptight.

I fight Rape Culture because
It won’t die out
Unless we kill it ourselves.

I Fight Rape Culture
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last day to reblog

you now you want to.

Gonna have to wait a whole year if you miss this.

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LIX: The World’s Smallest 3D Printing Pen Lets You Draw in the Air

WHAT

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I have been dreaming of something like this my entire life!!

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Foreal, foreal

Being a minority student with a low-income background really fucking sets families back from success, i.e education and job opportunities. I’m so sick of having to stress off financial issues, it makes it difficult to concentrate in school. Pft, growing up in an underdeveloped community doesn’t make it easier. In the end we all have the same goal to reach, same standards, but not the same fucking resources. I wish teachers really promoted higher education and didn’t settle what they taught.

It’s always gonna be a struggle. Especially with parents as refugees, who do not have the skills or education for a well-paid job. Yeah I’m proud I’m pursuing higher education and I shouldn’t be complaining but I hella hate how disadvantaged some of us are. Such a burden to be in school. Growing up living from paycheck to paycheck is tough, family can’t even support me in school. Doing this shit on my own isn’t easy, I lack motivation everyday being here. Especially because SJ is so fucking privileged, there is nobody around here with similar visions as me. I wish school was affordable. I mean we were taught to believe to become successful you have to go to school. People think families struggling in low-income communities are lazy because they’re not doing anything to get themselves out that situation.. because we fucking out. To become successful we have to get an education but some of us can’t even fucking afford it.

There’s so many factors that set us back.

How beautiful would it be to find someone who’s in love with your mind.

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How beautiful would it be to fall in love with your own mind?

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My short temper is back.

And this is not good. How does one person hold in so much fucking anger all the time.

" You just messin with the wrong guys, that’s all "

Well no shit. What, did you think I, somebody who RARELY talks/date intentionally talks to somebody who I know is a player/ has bad intentions. No shit I’m ” messing with the wrong kind of guys ” do people not understand people like to fool and deceive others?

Always fucking there when people needa shoulder to lean on. When people need to voice their shit when it’s bottled in. When people need somebody to reach out to. But once I let my weak side show ain’t nobody fuckin there for me or will allow me to break down. I get that, that’s cool. I see y’all. But when I let y’all come to me where’s the return I get once I need to breakdown every now and then too. Am I always supposed to bottle my shit in and prove to myself that in the long run you only got yourself to depend on? Cause sometimes I do believe that shits true. Can’t fucking count on anybody. Always gotta put on the big girl image and strong willed and too prideful for anything. But where people at when a homegirl needs one in return too. Idk what it is and I get I have to just get over shit but sometimes I feel like I put more effort into others when people need help more than people put in effort for me. Never had somebody to really confide in. Tired of bottling in my shit and letting it all slip once I get real heated, never being able to let things open out, and allowing shit to secretly eat my alive. But still, I put on a fucking image that I’m okay and thankful. Well I am thankful, but sometimes it would be nice if people didn’t invalidate the struggles I felt sometimes.

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Now I remember how fucked up old Nickelodeon shows were.

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So this is why we’re like this

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In the way guy is ruining every single photo ever. 

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You know you’re attached to someone when you’ve gotten so used to talking to them on a daily basis and they’ve become a part of your happiness. But when you guys don’t talk, it’s like a part of you is gone and you just start to miss them uncontrollably.

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Hey this is really true and see it will work for you too


If U were born on the 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th of any month U r number 1….

If U were born on the 2nd, 11th, 20th, 29th of any month then U r number 2…

If U were born on the 3rd, 12th, 21st, 30th of any month then U r number 3…

If U were born on the 4th, 13th, 22nd, 31st of any month then U r number 4…

If U were born on the 5th, 14th, 23rd of any month then U r number 5…

If U were born on the 6th, 15th, 24th of any month then U r number 6…

If U were born on the 7th, 16th, 25th of any month then U r number 7…

If U were born on the 8th,17th,26th of any month then U r number 8…

If U were born on the 9th,18th,27th of any month then U r number 9…



Number 1

You are smart, straight talking, funny, stubborn, hardworking, honest,Jealous on competing basis, kind hearted, angry, friendly, authorities, Famous person… always want to be and regarded as first on people position, they are often like to be independent, will never be under others, self confident people!

You are most likely to fall in love in the younger age, but will get marry when you mature! You are likely to have problems with people who have opposite views
And you are most likely to take revenge over your enemies in a long time basis. You are a spender, but you will have a good profession in the future.

If you are guy you will be very popular that everybody will have mental attraction and respect at you. You can go anywhere from the local shop to the heart of the parliament because you are positive and well talented in numerous issues!! But in your life you will always have some people who will work hard to bring you & your name down. This is undercover!! Coz of your smart behavior you will be hated by some people too…

Your family life is very cool, you will have a very nice partner & wonderful children… You are pioneer, independent & original…

Your best match is 4,6,8 good match is 3,5,7 !!!

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Number 2

No matter what, you will be loved by every one coz your ruler is the moon and every one loves the Moon. Well.. You are a person who day dream a lot, you have very low-self confidence, you need back up for every move in your life, you are very much unpredictable. Means you do change according to time and circumstances, kind a selfish, have a very strong sense of musical, artistic talent, verbal communication.

Your attitudes are like the Moon, comes to gloom and fade away so everybody can expect changes in you. You can be a next Mahatma Gandhi who does peace love or you can be a Hitler who wants to destroy the man kind and peace (I mean in the community and your own home).

If you really have a deep thought about your own believe in God you can feel the difference which will make you stronger! Most of the time your words are a kind of would be happening true! So without any knowledge you can predict the situation. You will become poets, writers, any Artistic business people!

You are not strong in love, so you will be there and here till you get marry.. If U r a girl you will be a responsible woman in the whole family. If U r a man you will involve in fights & arguments in the family or Vice-versa. Means you will sacrifice your life for the goodness sake of Your family…You are gentle , intuitive with a broad vision, a power behind the scenes, well balanced People!!!

Your best match is 2 ,5 ,9 no other people can put up with you !!!

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Number 3

You are a person of hard hearted, selfish most of the times, religious, loves to climb up in your life. You always tend to have lots of problems within your family in the early stages but you will put up with everything.. You have the strong word power, pretty happy face.. So wherever you go always you have got what you wanted!!! And from the birth always wanted to work hard in order to achieve something.. You will not get anything without hardwork! When you reach a man/ woman age you want other younger once to listen to you because you want younger people to respect people older than them. You do set so many examples to others.

Generally you are not a cool person. It’s not easy thing dealing with you. A tough player you are! But once you like someone’s attitude then here you go, what can I say? It will be a lasting friendship. You always have respect from others.

Your life seems to have lots of worries and problems but sure they won’t be long.. you will always have brilliant kids!!! You love the money a bit too much so temptation will push you to endless trying and trying.. If you are a guy then it’s over. Looking after your family and help friends, so you will spend a life time just being generous and kind (except 21st born men). And number 3s you will
be such an example of how to be in the culture & life!!! If you are girl then you have good character and culture & hardworking attitude. You always follow.

You are a freedom lover, creative, ambition focused, a person who brings beauty , hope & joy to this world!!!

Your best match 6 ,9. Good match 1 ,3 ,5 !!!

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Number 4

You are very stubborn too, very hard working but unlucky in important matters in life, very cool, helpful, you have rough word power.. Might put lots of people away from you, you may cause nuisance to others if you are a man, and you often understands others and their problems well. If you are a girl you are very good with studies and arts. If you are a guy you spend most of the time after girl friends (almost) at times, you will have sort of too much fun life with mates & girls. Your friends will spend your time & money and get away with their life and you will become empty handed and don’t know what to do… So be careful!! You love to spend anyway!!!

Your good will is you are always there to help family and friends. Tell you what you people are little gem! s, specially the girls.. You always fall in love in younger age as well. You often live with disappointments, for an example you have got a degree in some thing… but you will be unemployed.. or will do very ordinary jobs.

But you will take care of your family very well…All you need to be careful of people who will take advantage of your kind heart. And beware of your relations too..

You are radical, patient, persistent,a bit old-fashioned, you live with foundation & order…

Your best Match 1, 8. Good match 5 ,6 , 7 !!!

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Number 5

You are very popular within the community, you can get things done by just chatting..to even enemies! You have a pretty good business mind, you are often have no-idea what is today is like, or tomorrow is like, you are a person who does anything when your head thinks “lets do this”. You will be famous if you open up a business, get involve in share dealings, music etc.. Very popular with sense of humor ,you are the one your friends and families will always ask for help, and you are the one actually get money on credit and help your friends. You will have more than 1 relationship, but when u get settle down you will be a bit selfish anyway. Coz your other half will have a pretty good amount of control in you, be careful! You tend to go for other relationships! Contacts even you are married at times ‘coz your popularity..

You are someone who get along with anyone coz the number 5 is the middle number.. Changes & freedom lovers you are! You are an explorer with magic on your face. You learn your life through experience and it’s your best teacher!!!

Your best match 1 ,2 ,9. Good match 6 ,8 !!!

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Number 6

Ooopppss..you are born to enjoy.. You don’t care about others. I mean you are always want to enjoy your life time, you are a person.. You will be very good in either education or work wise or business management! You are talented, kind (but with only people who you think are nice), very beautiful girls and guys, popular and more than lucky with anything in your lives. All the goodness does come with you. Your mind and body is just made perfect for love.

You are lovable by any other numbers. But if you are a number 6 man, you will experience kind of looks from most girls and will involve in more than few relationships until you get married. If you are girl, most of you will get marry/engaged early. You are a caring person towards your family & friends .

If you miss the half-way mark then you are about to suffer physically and mentally. Generally you will lead a very good inner-home happiness with nothing short of. You are a person of compassion, comfort & fairness, domestic responsibility, good judgment, and after all you can heal this world wounds to make peace for every life coz you have the great power of caring talent to make this world of love one step further…

Your best match 1, 6, 9. Good match 4, 5 !!!
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Number 7

You have got the attraction to anyone out there, you are realistic, very confident, happy, such a talented individual with your education, music, arts, singing, and most importantly acting too. You have real problems with bad temper! If you are a girl, you are popular with the subjects listed above.

You give up things for your parents. I mean you value your family status a lot, you will be in the top rank when you reach a certain age. If you are a guy you are popular with girls, you are a very talented too. Most of the number 7s face lots of problems with their marriage life.

Only a very few are happy. You have everything in your life, but still always number 7s have some sort of unfullfilness, such worries all their lifetime.

It’s probably the Lord given you all sort of over the standard humans talents and you are about to suffer in family life. So you need to get ready looking for a partner rather than waiting. If you don’t, then you might end-up single. So take care with this issue, ok?

You are wonderful, friendly, artistic, happy person.. You are born to contribute lots to this world!!!

Your best match is 2. Good matches are 1,4 !!!
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Number 8

You are a very strong personality, there’s no one out there will understand you. You are very good at pointing your finger at some thing and say “this is what”.
You are more likely to suffer from the early ages. I mean poverty. If your times are not good you might lose either of your parent and end up looking after your entire family. You often suffer all the way in life.

The problems will not allow you to study further, but you will learn the life in a very practical way. You are the one who will fight for justice and may die in the war too. You are normally very reserved with handful of friends and most of the time live life lonely and always prepared to help others.

Well. once you get married (which is often late) then your bad lucks will go away a bit and you! u become safe. You will face un-expected problems such as :
the error, government, poisonous animals, accidents.

You are some one with great discipline, persistence, courage, strength which will take you to success. You are a great part of a family team. You are a fighter!

Your Best match 1 ,4, 8. Good match 5 !!!
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Number 9

Hey…you guys are the incompatibles people in the world. You are so strong, physically and mentally… You are often have big-aims. You will work hard and hard to get there. Normally you suffer in the early age from family problems and generally you will have fighting life.. But when you achieve what you have done, it’s always a big task you have done! You are so much respected in the community, you are a person who can make a challenge and successfully finish the matter off.

You are very naughty in your younger age, often beaten up by your parents and involve in fights and you seemed to have lots of injuries in your life time. But when u grow you become calm and macho type.

Love is not an easy matter for you. You are good in engineering or banking jobs coz people always trust you.

Your family life is very good, but will have worries over your children.

Your such qualities are humanitarian, patient, very wise & compassionate.

You are born to achieve targets and serve every one all equally without any prejudice.

You are totally a role model to anybody in the world for a great inspiration.

Your Best match 3, 5, 6, 9. Good match 2

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Holy shit. This is accurate. I’m #8.

it acc is pretty accurate omg.

woah this is so true..

Crazy how this pops in my dash afterwards.. #8 though. ” Easy to point finger and say ” this is what ” … live life alone but always willing to help others out “ 

FUCKTOAST.

You know what, I’m gonna type it out. Because why? You can never really feel like you can tell anything or confide yourself into somebody without feeling like you’re being judged and your pain being invalidated. 

This is how I feel… 

Actually, I don’t know how to feel. Because If I say I’m hurt, I’m overreacting and blowing things out of proportion, and I mean afterall… it was MY FAULT anyway wasn’t it? I can’t seem upset or be heartbroken by it because I have to put on a big girl strong attitude like people always think I have because I hardly ever show any type of emotions nor do I open up easily.

Okay yes, I understand, It’s not worth my time dwelling over and being sad about. But you know what? It’s not that easy to get over. Don’t brush it off and laugh about it, you wouldn’t be happy if you were put in to this kind of situation.

Do you know how often I even let myself open up and put my trust in to somebody? Not often at all. 

I grew up with such a bad mentality and pessimistic attitude, never felt like guys could be trusted. Never depended on any type of guy, never felt like guys were able to take care of womyn or should have to. Felt like it was a Womyn’s job to handle shit on her own, and of course there isn’t anything wrong with that. Usually girls like to find a partner/significant other way different from their dad, but I was never like that. I was never the type to try and search for something. ( I know, this is weird, I’m only 18, I still have a lot of time in my life, but still. Growing up this far in my life already with such a negative view towards men, isn’t good ) I never felt the need to be obligated to be in a relationship nor could I ever see myself in one because I look up to my Mother so fucking much. 

I felt like, ” If my mom can do it, then so can I, I don’t need any guy, I have friends and family ” and it’s true, that is how I still see it. 
But you, guys like you and my dad and all the guys before that have fucked around with my feelings, all the guys that brainwashed my sisters, and played them as well, are the reason I have such a hard time opening up and you fucked it all up once again. 

And don’t get offended guy friends. I know there’s good guys out there, sometimes it’s just hard to believe it, and trust me, there are evil girls out here too. I know I have good guy friends who do have a lot of respect for womyn, but how I was raised and things I’ve witnessed growing up, I have such a bad mentality that GUYS CANNOT BE TRUSTED.

For some reason, my heart hasn’t been aching and I’ve been handling it a lot better than I thought I would. Maybe because it was too much shit to take in I’m still in disbelief right now. But thanks for wasting my months on you fucker, lol jk. 

Maybe the reason why I’m not completely down in the dumps is because after having a bomb dropped on me, this whole time it was all lies.. therefor, there’s no reason to be sad over somebody you never really had in the first place. 

I do miss our conversations and it actually felt good to know what it felt like to have somebody care about you and check up on you EVERY SINGLE DAY. Me telling you A LOT OF PERSONAL SHIT. You telling me A LOT ALSO. All our conversations and time we spent do not mean anything anymore. Knowing that, that was all just games now, it hella sucks that I had to be put in this situation. I’m not even gonna bother to go in to detail because of how much of a complicated and fucked up situation it was. 

But you fucked with my feelings, fuck you. You know how much of a hard time I have opening up to guys too. And the thing that bothers me so much is that I tried dropping you, I ended up trying to help you and give you advice AS A FRIEND. I hate that I still care about you as a friend when you lied and deceived and betrayed me so badly. 

Makes me so mad I was in this kind of situation. And makes me so upset also she and I met up at MY FUCKING ORIENTATION. Sharing stories, piecing everything together. It’s like one those things you would watch in a movie LOL. No but seriously -.-…. You hella bullshitted me saying you were genuine and your feelings were sincere. You have a big ass way with your words and makes me so mad that people actually believe the shit you say >:OOO!!!! After all the evidence too oh my fuck lord. Fucked up my orientation, I couldn’t even enjoy my time there and socialize, I couldn’t even eat. It was such a shitty time. Even though I could have controlled that, still, that was A LOT TO TAKE IN. 

it still is a lot to take in. I know, it’s not worth my time dwelling over, I’ll get over it, I’ll meet new people in college, Ive been through more worse situations, BLAH BLAH BLAHHHHH. 

Time will mend my heart again. Just like how it’s mended my heart from other pain. But for now.. I just have to wake up everyday and accept what happened was real and realize I lost somebody that was going to be significant to my life.

Well, you are significant to my life. ” Everybody that walks in to your life has a reason. They’re either a lesson, or a blessing “ 

I don’t know why I’m sad over somebody I never really had in the first place now that this was all fake. I think I’m actually more just mad at myself because I let myself confide in to somebody when i told myself TO NOT. 

Ah shit toast. Just felt like I had to let out my frustration one last time. 

I understand I’m HELLA young, there’s a lot of there I have not experienced yet. But let me just say,

If you have somebody good, somebody real good to you. Respects you and can handle you at your bad times too and struggles with you, let them know you appreciate them, even if it’s just a text message. It’s really rare to find honest loyal and faithful people nowadays, because there will be people like me, who have trust issues, and people like him, who are young themselves and enjoys fucking around because just like how I am not obligated to be in a relationship, people like that/my dad also don’t feel obligated to commit themselves to anybody, and would take advantage of your trust right before your eyes NO MATTER how smart you thought you were before getting yourself in to something or how much of a wall you built. 

Again, not all guys are the same I understand that. But not everybody grows to to fully believe that also. What I’m saying is, there are lots of deceiving people out here. I feel like I have to be even more cautious of who I even trust now. I was like at a 3 on a scale of 1-10 of trusting. Now I’m at a negative 2 of ever wanting to open up again because I never thought I was gonna be put in this type of similar situation once again, I thought I was being smart. lol.

‎’Slut’ is attacking women for their right to say yes. ‘Friend Zone’ is attacking women for their right to say no.

And “bitch” is attacking women for their right to call you out on it (via dearscience)

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The Girls who are never getting Married

Ok, some guy shares this article 

http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/girls-married/

and for some reason… it just really pissed me the fuck off. I’m not sure if it’s satire, but it really pissed me the fuck off. You wanna talk about how females are caught up in the party lifestyle and are never gonna get married? While you’re categorizing females, you obviously have an issue yourself too. 

I understand that womyn, we should have respect for our own bodies but is it necessary to slut shame? Tell me. What are all these fucking double standards, Females are caught up in the party lifestyle, and it’s difficult for them to have somebody who are going to really want them in the end? 

" This girl may get married, but they’re guaranteed to be cheated on and used as an accessory. " Glad to fucking know it’s the womyn’s fault for being working in an industry based on image rather than blaming it on the man’s fault for using her as an accessory. Fucking prick. 

" You can’t marry a woman who can’t cook or clean, because then what point is there? " Do I even need to say anything about how ignorant that fucking sounds. 

1 year ago on May 24, 2013 at 02:10am